Pizza Won’t Help You Get Pregnant and Other Stuff No-One Tells You

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Pizza Won’t Help You Get Pregnant and Other Stuff No-One Tells You.

Let’s kick off by saying this. If you’re trying to get pregnant, it’s NOT your fault you’re not pregnant yet.  And I really mean that. From my heart to yours.  Sincerely. With love.

 

This blog is all about how we don’t know, what we don’t know.  If no-one teaches us, we can’t know better and do better. In fertility. In health. Even life.

No fear, no shame, no blame, no guilt, no judgement. Ever.

 

No-one teaches us how to get pregnant or how to get pregnant faster.

In schools and in the media, it’s all about how NOT to get pregnant.  Safe sex. And how to avoid STIs. Especially aimed at younger people.

So when we do want a baby, we get some Folic Acid IF our doctor has bothered to say anything… most do: a couple of women have told me their doctor never even mentioned it. And they should.

We also get busy having regular, unprotected sex.

Because that’s what we’re supposed to do. To make a baby.  Right?

If we’re very lucky, we may have picked up along the way that smoking isn’t great for fertility. And drinking heavily.

That’s about it. Usually.

 

Quick Fixes For Fertility?

It’s often when it doesn’t happen quickly enough.

OR women over 35 start to worry about their age and fertility .

That we start to wonder how to speed it up or boost our chances. Pronto.

So we scour the internet. Get books. Ask people, sometimes.

To find there is a lot of confusing information. And overwhelming information. There’s a lot of misleading information.  Myths. And Old Wives Tales.

And we want a quick fix. I totally get that.  Of course, we want get pregnant faster. And deliver a healthy baby.

So we start with the so-called quick fixes… fertility friendly lube, lying with our legs in the air afterwards, multivitamins.

We might start pee-ing on sticks because we heard that timing sex to ovulation is going to boost our chances. Well yes, but pee-ing on sticks isn’t always accurate in predicting ovulation. More of that in another blog.

 

How To Get Pregnant Faster

I’ll say it again. No-one teaches us this stuff.

Well, okay. I do. A few people do. I do.

If you want to get pregnant faster. And boost your chances of IVF success.  You can do these things.  They may not be quick fixes. BUT there are little steps …small things you can start straight away.

 

#1 Change diet. 

Pizza doesn’t help you get pregnant. Nor other processed, packaged, ready-made, fast or takeaway food.

Ditto sugar, artificial sweeteners, white carbs, non organic meat and dairy.

We need nutritious food with fertility-fuelling vitamins, minerals, good fats, protein and brown carbs. Real food.   Poor nutrition can affect fertility.

So what do you eat? And drink?

No-one teaches us this stuff.

 

#2 Look At Your Life Choices

Smoking can harm fertility.

Drinking alcohol can affect fertility.

Caffeine (tea, coffee, green tea, chocolate, cola) can affect fertility.

Exercise –  too much and too little – can affect fertility.

Weight – being overweight or underweight – can affect fertility.

Drugs – recreational, over-the-counter and prescribed – can affect fertility.

Where and how do you start to tackle these?

No-one teaches us this stuff.

 

#3 Detox Your World

There are health harming chemicals everywhere.

Hormone-harming and fertility harming chemicals everywhere.

You just need to know what they are and where they lurk.

No-one teaches us this stuff.

 

#4 Gen Up On General Health 

Some conditions can affect fertility. Self-care and conventional treatments help. Some are well known. Like PCOS, sperm issues, Endometriosis.

Other are not. Thyroid issues. Low iron. Hormone imbalances.

You may have a condition and not even know yet.  One that’s unrelated to baby-making. But it could STILL be affecting fertility.

Wah.

No-one teaches us this stuff.

 

#5 Relax and Rejuvenate

Modern life is mad. Fact. There’s pressure, stress, plate-spinning, multi-tasking, juggling balls.

That can affect our hormone balance, energy levels  and sex drive and therefore fertility.

The stress of not falling pregnant as quickly as you want, can add to stress and worry.

You know it.  But reducing stress is easier said than done, sometimes.

No-one teaches us this stuff.

 

#6 Learn About When To Make Love 

If you’ve been trying for a while, maybe you want to think about fertility awareness – knowing the natural signs of fertility. Temperature. Mucus. Cervix position. And how to check them PROPERLY.

So you can see if you’re ovulating or not. And you can time sex …if you choose.

The info out there is littered with myth and misunderstanding.

No-one teaches us this stuff.

It’s why I wrote the mini course Ovulation For Pregnancy. A myth buster.

 

#7 Know When and What To Test 

If you’ve been trying a couple of years and you’re a woman under 35, it’s time to think tests.

Or you’re over 35 and have been trying for 6 months, it’s time to think tests.

If you suspect a condition that might make it tough for you, ask for tests.

But what tests? When? What to ask for? What should you look for when you get results? Which questions should you ask?

No-one teaches us this stuff.

 

No-One Teaches Us This Stuff

Not obviously. Not out there. If you’re lucky, you’ll find  book, a website. ME.

It’s why I packaged my knowledge on fuelling fertility naturally into an accessible, affordable online course. Previously, I just taught it to couples face to face on via Skype. Which isn’t for everyone.

It’s called Fire Up Fertility and it’s all you need to know to:-

  • Get pregnant faster
  • Boost IVF success chances
  • Reduce health risks in pregnancy
  • Reduce risks to baby health

 

It has a whole heap of info. AND all the small things you can start to implement straight away. Quick tips. That make a difference.

 

And it comes with a secret , super-supportive, online members only group.

Never underestimate the value of good support from people who get it – women just like you. For virtual hugs, handholding, acceptance and encouragement.   No fear, shame, blame, judgement.

We don’t know what we don’t know. No-one teaches this stuff. Until now.

If you want to find out more about the programme check out the link.

 

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I’m here with all my info and a shoulder to lean on.

Love, Kathy x

“I’d Do Anything To Have A Baby” – Is that TRUE?

I'd do anything to have a baby

 

 

“I’d Do Anything To Have A Baby” – Is that TRUE?

“I’d do anything to have a baby”.

It’s a phrase I’ve heard quite a few times.   It’s easy said.

But what would YOU do? How far would you actually go?  Are you and your partner (if there is one in the picture) in agreement?

When I speak with people about this, they immediately start talking about their options.

 

Options to Become a Parent

At some point, couples usually discuss what options they’d go for if they don’t or can’t get pregnant naturally.

A common path is Fertility treatments like the drug Clomid to stimulate ovulation.

And IUI when sperm is injected into the woman.

Or IVF where sperm and an egg are mixed in lab dishes.

And ICSI when an egg is fertilised by a single sperm injected into it.

Of course, some choose donor eggs and/or donor sperm. As couples. Or as lone parents.

Others choose surrogates.

Some choose adoption at home or from abroad.

And – in the end – some people are reconciled to being childless.

Everyone is different. It’s a very personal choice.  It’s my view, but none of those choices are easy.  Which ones would you consider to have a baby?

 

Some involve tests, drug regimens, procedures and appointments.

Most involve HUGE expense, unless you benefit from free or subsidised treatments.  People have gone to extra-ordinary lengths to find the money.

Many involve paperwork and red tape and legalities.

All involve time.

All involve risk … physical, emotional, financial, legal …

All involve stress, arguably.

AND all those paths have also brought great joy to countless couples worldwide.  The road the parenthood is sometimes really tough, but the reward is great.  I get it.

Of course, sometimes it IS the only way.

And in my experience, I have also seen some women and couples who want to rush headlong into conventional fertility treatments.  Believing it to be the easy way to have a baby.

 

Getting Pregnant Faster?

Where I am in the UK, conventional wisdom is that no-one should panic if they don’t fall pregnant immediately they start trying.

Healthy couples under age 35 have about a 25% chance of conceiving each month, with regular unprotected sex.

About half of such couples fall pregnant in 6 months. 80% in a year. 90% in 2 years.

And that’s if there is nothing wrong with you.

But here in the UK we’re advised to speak with a doctor if nothing has happened in a year.  For the over 35s, it’s usually 6 months.

So, that’s just starting to get advice after 6 months or a year.  Even then, it’s unlikely that a doctor is going to jump straight to fertility treatment. Even if they do, it can be a long road to get referrals, appointments, make choices and get the treatments you choose.

Age IS a factor, of course. Fertility does decline with age. But it’s not the only factor in fertility- there’s diet, lifestyle, stress, environment and medical history.

Many things we can make choices about; many factors we can change …if we choose.

Which brings me back to my questions – what would YOU do? How far would you actually go to have a baby?

 

Preconception Care

It’s no secret I’m passionate about preconception care. Whether you’re trying to fall pregnant naturally or have chosen IVF.

And in my practice, I have women and couples come to see me for guidance.

Some say “I would do anything to have a baby” and mean that they will follow my recommendations for at least 3-4 months and maintain a good relationship with their doctor, at the same time.

They change their eating habits, clean up their lifestyle, reduce exposure to environment hazards and de-stress as much as they can. We test their hair and recommend bespoke supplement programmes. They take control of their journey to parenthood.

Others say  “I would do anything to have a baby” and mean that they want fertility treatment because changing their life is too hard right now. And that’s no judgement from me. Really, it’s not.  It’s all personal choice.

I feel it my duty to point out to them that chances of successful treatment go up when couples are as healthy as possible before treatment  starts – a healthy weight, good diet, limited alcohol or caffeine, no smoking, regular exercise, reduced stress …

I’ve also been in the predicament where couples say “I would do anything to have  baby” and then it’s apparent one of them is struggling e.g. to give up smoking.  I can see that it might make the road much more rocky for them.

Again, no judgement. Change can be tough.

We have to want to change more than we want to remain the same. We might struggle. We might need support and encouragement. We might need other resources.

So definitely no judgement, but I’d prefer that people aren’t so glib when they use the phrase “I’d do anything to have a baby”. Please think about what to means to you and to your partner, if you’re having a baby as a couple.  Get clear about what you are prepared to do. And get on the same page.

I wish everyone success on their path to parenthood, however they choose to get there.

Love, Kathy x

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Fertility and Vegetarian Diets or Vegan Diets

 

Fertility And Vegetarian Diets or Vegan Diets

 

Fertility and Vegetarian Diets or Vegan Diets.

 

If you’re vegetarian or vegan planning to get pregnant, read on…

NOT because I’m going to try to talk you out of the diet.  Heck no.

BUT there are some things you might want to know.  So you can make sure your diet and lifestyle don’t get in the way of getting pregnant.

 

Traditional Fertility Foods

Traditional cultures often have “fertility foods”.  They are highly prized foods given to new married couples to boost baby-making.

They are usually meat or milk, fish or shellfish. Animal products.

Weston Price – he studied traditional cultures and diet – found no communities living on ONLY plant foods for generations.

Plant foods miss some important nutrients. Or have them in lower amounts.

So you have to be more savvy with what you eat to stay fit and healthy. And baby-fit and healthy.

 

Fertility and Vegetarian Diets – Protein

It’s tougher to get complete proteins on a vegan diet.

Egg and sperm health need good quality protein in decent amounts.

Healthy vegans will eat a range of plant proteins like corn, soy, quinoa, leafy greens, spirulina and more.

If you choose soy, it’s best to eat it only in moderation when trying to get pregnant. The natural oestrogen’s ( phytoestrogens) in soya can affect your cycle. Make sure it’s not GMO soya. There are worries around GMO and impacts on fertility. Fermented organic soy products miso and natto can be good choices.

 

Fertility and Vegetarian Diets – Vitamin B12 and Other Good Stuff

Healthy vegans will also know that it’s tough to get Vitamin B12 on a plant diet.  Many get more B12 in their diet from supplements.  B12 is important to healthy development of a baby.

Some vegans lack the mineral iron, because its not easily absorbed from plants.  Iron is good for egg and sperm health,

Certain Omega 3 fats may be lower in vegan diet.  Try to get related fats from flaxseed and walnuts to help the body to make some of the missing ones.

Vegetarians eating eggs and high-quality, organic dairy are probably okay, as long they are eating a wide range of nutritious foods.

 

So my message ISN’T don’t be a vegan or vegetarian …

…it’s PLEASE take a careful look at your food and lifestyle choices.  Make sure you are maxing health and fertility before trying for a baby.

Invest time and effort in your  care for a better chance of natural conception and a healthy pregnancy and baby.

 

Love, Kathy x

P.S. Learn more about healthy vegetarian diets and healthy vegan diets at The Vegetarian Society  and The Vegan Society

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Sexual Health and Fertility

SEXUAL HEALTH and FERTILITY

Sexual Health and Fertility.

Today, I’m talking about another pretty tough subject.

It’s sexual health.  You know the infections “down below” you need to get checked out at one of those clinics.  Let’s call them GUIs (genito-urinary infections) rather than STDs (sexually transmitted diseases). You’ll see why.

And it IS tough subject. One I raise with all my baby-making couples.

And I often watch their faces drain of colour. Because they think I’ve assumed something about them or at least one of them.

I HAVEN’T! Honestly.

People often skip this step when they’re planning a baby, because they’re in a committed, long-term relationship. AND have no symptoms of a problem.

I want to bust a few myths and let you see that it’s a good idea to get checked out before making a baby, even if you’ve only ever had sex with one another and are totally faithful.

Let’s start with the “face draining” issue ….

Sexual Health – Not All Infections Are Sexually Transmitted

Phew.

Does that make you feel better about yourself and your partner?

It’s totally true.

Not ALL GUIs are caught through sex. Some are bowel bugs.  They can travel and cause infection elsewhere.

AND any infection of the urinary that or prostate that a guy has OR had in the past can cause damage and affect fertility right now.  Like mumps, for example.  Yes, past infections can be troubling you now.

So, it’s good to get checked out even if you’ve only ever had sex with one another.

 

Sexual Health –  You Might Have An Infection And Never Know

Yup. Some infections can be symptom-less or symptoms might be at such a low level you don’t even notice or worry about it.  Not all infections are easy to spot, because you may show no obvious symptoms.

Only a test by a doctor or nurse might show them up.

Please get checked, everyone.

But especially if you’re struggling to fall pregnant or have a history of miscarriage.

 

Sexual Health – Infections Can Cause Fertility Problems

GUIs can can be bad for you, your ability to get pregnant AND your future baby.

Infections like chlamydia can cause blocked fallopian tubes and lead to Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID) too. Both of these can lead to issues trying to get pregnant.

Untreated GUIs can even affect your future baby’s health if they are born naturally (not c section), as they pass through the birth canal.

 

Sexual Health – Some Symptoms Of Infections

Symptoms of GUIs can include:-

  • Irritation and itching down below
  • Burning on pee-ing
  • Unusual bleeding
  • Pain on sex
  • Pain in the lower tummy area
  • Discharges that are out of the ordinary
  • Tiredness
  • Lumps, warts and ulcers on your genitals
  • Swollen and painful testicles.

 

So don’t be shy, get yourselves checked out, before trying to get pregnant or if you are having trouble conceiving. There are free sexual health clinics in most towns and cities or talk to your Doctor.

They are used to talking about this stuff all the time.  It’s confidential. And they literally have seen it all before.

 

Love, Kathy x

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A Fertility Friendly Kitchen

Fertility Friendly Kitchen

A Fertility Friendly Kitchen.

 

Or HOW TO SHOP, COOK AND STORE FOOD…

I’m always banging on about eating a varied diet of nourishing foods to protect and fire up fertility. I know I do.

But did you know, that what you buy, how you cook it and how you store it is important too?

NO?

Well grab a brew, pull up a chair and read on missus. I’m about to share my top tips for a fertility friendly kitchen.

 

Fertility Friendly Shopping

So what are my best secrets for being a savvy shopper when it comes to protecting and boosting fertility?

  • Start with replacing the packets, tins, jars and cartons with real food.  Proper foods.  Fresh foods. Buy food that is ingredients, not has ingredients.
  • Buy organic as much as you can – certainly meat and poultry to avoid the growth hormones and drugs. AND any dairy you choose to eat for the same reasons. PLUS the “dirty dozen” most polluted veggies and fruits.   Also read my blog on how to deal with the hormone harmers lurking in your fridge if you can’t buy all organic stuff.
  • Buy fresh.  It’s better to do a couple of shops a week and have fresh stuff than one big old shop and be snarfing limp, sad, tired veggies by Friday.
  • Become an avid reader of labels – avoid additives, preservatives, colourings, GMOs, sugar (including all the words with “ose” that are actually sugars) and other nasties that harm hormones and health.

Fertility Friendly Cooking

Did you know the materials you cook with have an impact on your food?

And your food impacts on your health and fertility.

The three safest options are:-

  • cast iron
  • enamel coated cast iron
  • stainless steel.

Non-stick pans are convenient, but can cause problems if you scrape the coating and it gets into your food. Teflon has been linked with reduced fertility, thyroid issues and cancers.

Copper can leach from copper pans. Its allergenic, toxic and high copper can affect women’s hormones and fertility.

Aluminium has been linked with oestrogen-driven cancers and Alzheimers. Maybe time for a change?

And do you use a microwave to cook?

Microwaving alters the structure of food. Some studies suggest it’s harmful, others pooh pooh that. When stuff isn’t clear, I’m personally very cautious. I don’t eat microwave food, knowingly.

 

Fertility Friendly Food Storage

Again natural materials are best for food storage.  Think fertility friendly wood, ceramics, glass, stainless steel, cast iron.

Avoid copper, aluminium and non stick.

PLUS plastics. Many plastic storage containers contain BPA which is a known hormone harmer.  It’s in plastic drinks bottle too.  Look out for BPA free containers – I bought mine on the high street, so they’re easy to get.

And what of food wrap?

Avoid using aluminium foil right next to the food, if you can.

Ditto PVC plastic food wrap. Especially fatty food like cheese and meat.

Cover the containers rather than wrap the actual food.

I like paper bags, greaseproof and non PVC wrap myself.

 

There’s a lot to take on board here. But start with ONE change.

Once that’s mastered, take another step…and another.

Soon you’ll be shopping, cooking and storing food like a fertility friendly Ninja.  Any questions, just ask over on Footsteps to Fertility

 

Love, Kathy x

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Biological Clock. The Story Of Mine.

Biological Clock.The Story of MINE

Biological Clock. The Story Of Mine.

 

This is MY story of my biological clock ticking.

Let’s start by making it clear.

I don’t have any kids.

Or rather WE don’t have any kids.  Mr P and I.

We’ve been happily married over 10 years.

We’ve travelled to some wonderful places – before we met and even more since we met. We’re the couple who had a small wedding and a massive honeymoon, travelling to Mauritius and South Africa for FOUR glorious weeks.  It was bliss. So romantic.

We have a stable life – a home, money coming in, family and friends … everything we ever need.

In many folks’ eyes we have the perfect set up to start a family.

 

Biological Clock Ticking

The noise started as soon as we were married.

We’ve had all the quips from well-meaning family, friends, colleagues and even acquaintances about “you’ll make such great parents” and “things’ll change when you have kids” or “this neighbourhood/house/garden is great for children” and the “when am I going to be a grandparent/ aunt/uncle/godparent/babysitter?”.

No pressure then.

We’ve heard them all.

And then as time passed, we had “you had better get cracking you’re already pushing 40” and “you’re not getting any younger”.  Really? I hadn’t noticed. That was aimed at ME.  I’m a little older than Mr P. Gee, thanks. Tell me something I don’t know. I missed the blindingly obvious. Derrrrrr.

I even had people ask if we’ve “looked into it”.

What’s that loud noise? Oh that’ll be my biological clock ticking.

Many couples my age already had kids in high school, let alone nursery!

 

Then more time passed. The comments started to dry up. Which – to me – was far worse.

They were replaced by raised eyebrows. “Knowing” looks. Furrowed brows. Hushed voices.

That made the biological clock sound even louder.

People felt very sorry for us. People stopped asking. People started sparing our feelings.

 

Our First “Baby”

We thought long and hard about our first “baby”. I gave up my corporate career beforehand.

A curly apricot Labradoodle puppy. He was born early evening during a birthday party in the kitchen of a lovely lady – he was last born of 9 pups. 1 girl, 8 boys. He was one of the heaviest. We called him Django, after a restaurant Mr P took me to on our first holiday together.

Aaaahhhh.

I have always been his “Mum”. He’s my fur baby. I absolutely love him to bits.

I proudly showed him off to other doggie Mums. I weighed him regularly with the vet nurse. I marvelled at all the ways he changed, learned and grew.

I despaired when he went through biting and nipping … just a phase I was advised.

People say he’s just like me. Sensitive. A bit flighty. Protective. Clumsy. An old soul.

People call him my child substitute.

 

Our Second

We got our second dog when I was 42.  I had been broody for a while.  I didn’t want Django to be an only dog. We got Pepper.  She’s a cream Labradoodle except she got no poodle genes and looks like a little Field Labrador. She’s as pretty as a picture.

Her name was inspired by a trip to Malaysia and Borneo – famous for pepper plantations. Her “Sunday” name is Amarante Oriental Pearl.

She was born in that same kitchen.

I love her to bits. She is exactly like her Daddy. Loving. Loyal. Funny. Clever. Likes food.

I kinda knew then that my little family is complete. I was done.

 

Kathy's Labradoodles

 

Of course, there are women who have children naturally over 40.

AND there are several other choices we can make too.

Some women choose to try for babies over 40 with IVF.

Other women choose to have babies over 40 with donor eggs.

Some women choose surrogacy.

And women who choose to adopt.

I know it now in my work as a natural health and fertility coach.  Because I help many women just like that. I knew it back then too.

So why didn’t those roads work out for us?

 

Our Choice

To cut to the chase, because we didn’t go down ANY of those roads.

Because before we got married we decided we didn’t want any children.

We have never tried to get pregnant.

Our reasons are our own.

So we understand perfectly well the pressure to have children… especially when you and the rest of the world can hear that biological clock ticking.

I have often found myself saying “We have no children by choice“.  Which I know is totally unnecessary.  I guess it’s to save myself the raised eyebrows, knowing looks, furrowed brows, hushed voices.  BUT I realise we don’t need to justify ourselves.

Just as women and couples who make different choices need not justify themselves either.

ALL the women and couples who keep on trying naturally. Who go for fertility treatment. Who choose surrogacy. Who adopt.

And those who wanted children and chose, in the end, to remain without them.

I have worked and continue to work with women and couples who are taking the road to parenthood. I help people boost their natural fertility with diet and lifestyle support and complementary therapies. I offer preconception care to those trying to get pregnant naturally or via IVF.

I understand their desire to have kids.  I really, really do.

I get the emotional rollercoaster.

I get the want to have kids. I get the maternal instinct. I get the longing

I get the fear. I get the blame. I get the shame.

I get the disappointment. I get the frustration. I get the questioning.

I get the excitement. I get the happiness. I get the JOY.

I’ve shared it with others. I have HUGE empathy. As a family member. As a friend. As a coach. As a human being.

The biological clock thing. I’ve lived through that for myself.

 

So my learnings here are these…

Don’t make assumptions… no matter how well-meaning.

Respect other peoples’ choices. You never walked a mile in their shoes.

You don’t need to justify yourself to anyone.

And finally, never ever underestimate the huge power of empathy.

 

Love, Kathy x

P.S. If you’re planning a baby or actively trying to fall pregnant now, check out my FREE online programme called 7 Steps To Boost Fertility. 

It covers ALL the basic you need to know to get baby-fit and boost fertility. Some of my hints might surprise you. You’ll find it super-useful.

It’s for you whether you’ve pee’ed on a gazillion sticks already or you’re just starting to get your head around getting baby fit. Or choosing IVF.

It’s super easy to access via a link I send you and easy to use.  You can watch all the short videos and read the  notes at home on your computer or listen on headphones any time.  It’s confidential and discreet. No-one knows you signed up but me.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My Top 5 Foods for Fertility

  My Top 5 Foods For Fertility

My Top 5 Foods for Fertility

“What’s your top foods for fertility, Kathy?”

Ooh if I had a Pound/Euro/Dollar for every time I’ve been asked that I’d have a massive pile of coins by now!

Of course, I really think that eating a variety of nutrient-dense foods is the key to a fertility-friendly diet   I do have some fave foods that are tasty and provide many of the goodness we need to make and carry a healthy baby.

 

So, here are my top 5 foods for fertility.  They may not be everyone’s choice, but they are mine.  BUT they’re in no particular order here …

 

#1 Nuts and Seeds

My personal addiction is almonds, but I’m talking almonds, walnuts, pecans, hazelnuts, cashews. And their nut “butters”.  And even the oils for drizzling.

F-A-B-U-L-O-U-S sources of good fats which we need for a healthy body and mind generally.  AND as part of our stash of foods for fertility.

Almonds are a good source of zinc and the all-important FOLATE (folic acid) too which women and men need for baby-making.

Nuts also have Vitamin E which is helpful for women’s fertility and for sperm function in guys.

And what about those seeds? Also top foods for fertility. Pumpkin, sunflower, sesame. flax.

Great for fab fats and Vitamin E.  Sunflower seeds have lots of magnesium.  And that’s important for female fertility and in pregnancy.

Of course, nuts and seeds are veggie and vegan friendly too.

 

 #2 Beans, Peas and Lentils a.k.a Legumes

The humble legume is not so humble.

They are a great source of folate or folic acid. It’s best known for it’s role in preventing spina bifida but we now know it’s really key for fertility.

Get yours from legumes and also leafy greens, nuts and wholegrains.  AND women should supplement when trying to fall pregnant.

Beans, peas and lentils are also protein packed. And eating good quality protein with each meal and snack balances blood, sugar, energy, mood and hormones. Gotta be good, right?

And once again, suitable for vegetarians and vegans. Love those lentils!

 

#3 Leafy Greens

I know I always say healthy eating is not all about the kale and it ISN’T!

BUT green leafy veggies are packed with goodness. Real fab foods for fertility.

They have folate and Vitamin B6.  Vitamin B6 is needed for women’s hormones production and balance and for a healthy pregnancy.

Your Mum was right, you should eat you greens!

Remember my guidance on choosing organic veggies and fruits? Read more here.

 

#4  Oily Fish

As well as containing protein, oily fish – salmon, mackerel, sardines – are an excellent source of good fats.

I buy my salmon organic or wild, if I can.

Oily fish also has good levels of Vitamin B6, Vitamin B12, Vitamin E, zinc. Real powerhouses!

Eat yours for breakfast as well as lunch or dinner.

 

#5 Strawberries (and Other Fruits)

I usually suggest eating 7 portions of fruits and veggies daily, at least where 1-2 portions are fruits.

Strawberries are a good choice, as they are less sugary AND have Vitamin C.  Vitamin C is great for sperm health and some studies show it plays  role in ovulation.  Who knew?

Other Vitamin C foods for fertility are blueberries, kiwi fruit, mangoes, citrus fruits, red peppers, watercress, parsley and Brussels Sprouts.

 

Can I be sneaky and make a plea for adding a SIXTH recommendation?

Drink plenty of filtered or bottled (glass bottles only) water to flush out terrible toxins and keep you hydrated.

 

That’s my top 5 foods for fertility? What say you?

If you liked this blog, you’ll LURVE my FREE online programme called 7 Steps To Boost Fertility. 

It covers ALL the basics you need to know to boost your natural fertility.

It’s for you whether you’ve pee’ed on a gazillion sticks already or you’re just starting to get your head around getting baby fit.  Or if you’re choosing IVF.

It’s super easy to access from a link I’ll e mail to you.  No-one can see you signed up or see you in the online classroom. Its simple to use.  Watch at home or listen on your headphones – totes discreet.

Love, Kathy x

 

Male Fertility – How To Boost It

Male Fertility

 

We’re talking male fertility.

In about half of the couples with fertility issues, the challenge lies with the man.  If it’s true that about 1 in 6 couples have trouble falling pregnant, that’s a lot of guys who want to improve their sperm.

 

There are different causes of male fertility issues. The most common is that the man’s semen doesn’t have enough “normal” sperm to swim and fertilise the egg.

A semen test is usually the first step to check it out.

It’s good to get a semen test even if the woman has known factors, which might affect her chances of falling pregnant. There could also be semen issues. Even if a guy has other kids, it’s possible his sperm is not as healthy as it could be right now.

AND as with all tests, there are “normal ranges to measure against.  Are your guy’s results near the bottom of that range? If so, maybe there’s still room for improvement?

It’s good to get the best egg and strongest sperm to make the healthiest baby we can.

So today’s top tips are for the men in your life.

 

6 Health Hints To Boost Male Fertility By Boosting Sperm Health:-

 

#1 Eat a varied diet rich in healthy organic foods. Avoid additives, pesticides, preservatives and processed foods and the dreaded sugar.

 

#2 Kick to the curb smoking, alcohol, street drugs and any unnecessary medications. Speak to your doctor about these for support and guidance.

 

#3 Check your reproductive health. Visit a Genito-Urinary Health clinic for a health check up. If you’ve been trying to conceive for a while ask your GP for a sperm analysis test.

 

#4 If you suspect allergies or digestive problems, get them checked out. These can affect your nutritional status and you need good nutrition to make a healthy baby…which leads me to…

 

#5 Check out your nutrition status. Speak to a practitioner like me about hair mineral testing for mineral status and toxic metal load.

 

#6. Reduce your exposure to environmental nasties like pesticides, pollution, harmful chemicals in toiletries and cleaning products or at work if you work in industry.

 

It takes about 3 months to make sperm.  So, your guy should make these changes at least 3 months before you want to try to get pregnant, ideally.

 

If you liked this blog, you’ll LURVE my FREE online programme called 7 Steps To Boost Fertility. 

It covers ALL the basics you need to know to boost fertility as a couple.

It’s for you whether you’ve pee’ed on a gazillion sticks already or you’re just starting to get your head around getting baby fit.  And also if you’re choosing IVF.

It’s super easy to access via  link I’ll mail you.  Easy to use in the secure, online classroom – no-one can see you in there but me.

Watch the stuff at home or listen via headphones on the go – very discreet.

Love, Kathy x

 

Footsteps to Fertility for Fertility Support

Fertility Support

Footsteps to Fertility for Fertility Support.

Without making this blog about ME (it ISN’T), I wanted to tell you a bit about who my biz serves.

You see, most – not all – of my clients are 30s, 40s and early 50s women and they’re all suffering hormone disharmony.  I call that hormone-y. It’s not an insult. I’m hormone-y myself.

Whilst many clients have similar symptoms and I often work in similar ways, they naturally fall into two gorgeous groups.

Those who don’t want any (more) children.  They are trying to calm hormone havoc or protect their hormone health, as they get even more fabulous and mature.

Those who do want children and would like fertility support..  They are trying to protect and boost fertility, as well as protecting general hormone health.

So why am I telling you this?

 

Fertility Support Is Much Needed

I’m telling you the because until recently I haven’t been best serving both gorgeous groups.

My blog has been packed with great articles for general hormone health and women’s health.

My social media has more posts about hormone health than fertility support.  Yes Facebook.  And YOU too Twitter.  You don’t get away Scot Free Google.  Stop lurking in the corner Pinterest.

And I also had some feedback. It was a gift. Thank you.

Feedback that you like my stuff but a path to parenthood is private and people don’t alway want to post about it in comments on a blog or on my Facebook page. But you do need information and to ask questions and to hang out and share and learn …

And I listened. I face-palmed myself.

BUT I took action.

 

Footsteps to Fertility – My Fertility Support Group

It’s a place for anyone planning to have a baby.

It’s a private, closed Facebook Group.   It’s FREE.

You might be struggling to fall pregnant and trying naturally. You could be struggling and choosing IVF or other treatments. Maybe you just started trying and want some guidance. Even just started to think about trying and want to know how to get baby-fit first.

You share a common goal. You are all very welcome.

At Footsteps To Fertility, you can ask questions, share your own experiences and give help and encouragement on the path to parenthood.

There will also be some posts, tips and links by me.  I’ll share any of my classes and other stuff that you might choose to help you.

There will be fertility support, guidance, encouragement and understanding. This is your place to hang out.

So there you have it, Footsteps to Fertility, a safe fertility support group for anyone planning a baby right now or in the future.

I hope to see many of you there.

And please SHARE this blog with anyone who might be planning a baby.

If you like the group, you’ll LURVE my FREE online programme called 7 Steps To Boost Fertility. 

It covers ALL the basic you need to know to boost fertility.

It’s for you whether you’ve pee’ed on a gazillion sticks already or you’re just starting to get your head around getting baby fit. Or planning IVF.

It’s super easy to access from the link I’ll send you.  It’s simple to use in the online classroom, where no-one else can see you. Watch the videos at home or listen on your headphones – totes private.

Love, Kathy x

 

Trying To Get Pregnant? Quit These 5 Drinks today

Trying To Get Pregnant? Quit These 5 Drinks Today

Trying To Get Pregnant? Quit These 5 Drinks Today.

Are you trying to get pregnant? Well, you’ve come to a great place for free hints tips, recommendations, recipes, and articles,  and paid classes, courses and coaching!

Let me tell you a little secret….

There’s another fab place that I know. It’s called Fertility Road and it’s an online and paper magazine.  And it’s a brilliant resource for anyone trying to get pregnant, whether you’re struggling or not.  It’s always packed with information on diet and lifestyle, natural therapies, research, assisted techniques and other options.

I have written serval articles for them on boosting fertility naturally and will continue to do that as a regular contributor.  I’m honoured.

Here’s another of my articles for Fertility Road and this time it’s all about drinks.

It’s called Trying To Get Pregnant? Quit These 5 Drinks Today.

I’d urge you to take a read – you might be surprised at some of the tips.  It’s not just all about how women should give up drinking when they get pregnant. It has some really valuable deets for women and men. Yes, guys that means you too. Wise up.

 

More Help Along The Fertility Road

 

If you liked this blog, you’ll LURVE my FREE online programme called 7 Steps To Boost Fertility. 

It covers ALL the basics you need to know to boost your natural fertility.

It’s for you whether you’ve pee’ed on a gazillion sticks already or you’re just starting to get your head around getting baby-ready.  It’s suitable if you’re trying naturally or via IVF.

It’s super easy to access and use.  I’ll send you a link to the simple online classroom, where no-one can see you. Download the audio and listen or your headphones if you like.

 

In case it passed you by, here is the Fertility Road article link again…

>>> Trying To Get Pregnant? Quit These 5 Drinks Today <<<

 

Bottoms up. *chinks glass of filtered water*

Love, Kathy x