How To Stay Healthy and Avoid Hangry


How To Stay Healthy and Avoid Hangry

How To Stay Healthy And Avoid Hangry.

Picture the scene.

You’ve been working hard.  Focussed on some super-important task.  Shizzle that must be done. Maybe it’s really interesting and you got lost in doing it.

Hours tick by.

Your bum is numb in your chair. Back killing.

Eyes are crossed from staring at a screen.

You haven’t had a brew in eons.

And you notice your energy really f-l-a-g-g-i-n-g.

One computer error or the broadband goes down and suddenly you turn from a Mild Mannered Miss to totes Bitch Troll From Hell, hurling your stress ball and unrepeatable abuse at your computer screen.

You’re more than thirsty, peckish and tetchy. You’re full on HANGRY. 


When Hangry Strikes

So what do you do in your hangry state?

Crash into the kitchen like an ogre  and look for the quickest, easiest, most fuelling – AVAILABLE  –  foods. It usually involves bread and cheese (or that classic variation toast and cheese). Or a shrivelled, microwaved, chewy potato.  Or the contents of the cookie jar.

If you’re out at work or college, you go to the canteen or shop and carb up big styley. Maybe even with bread and cheese again.

Am I right?

Washed down with a mug of coffee as big as your own head.

Any thoughts of nutrition, protecting your health, balancing your hormones, stabilising energy or moods, boosting your fertility – woooooshhhhhh. They flew straight out of the window.

Sticking with healthy habits isn’t always easy.

We’re busy, tired and sometimes don’t feel like rustling up a healthy meal or snack. I get it.

Sometimes, get pretty hangry myself. I have been known to eat doorsteps of sourdough toast and almond butter for lunch.

The key is a bit of PLANNING AHEAD.  And EATING LITTLE AND OFTEN.  Even though it’s tempting to skip meals when we’re busy.


Reasons To Avoid The Hangry

The main reason for hangry-ness is not eating regularly or skipping meals altogether.

Here’s why that’s not such a great plan.


  • Not eating  often or skipping meals messes up our blood sugar levels.  When our blood sugar is out of whack, so are our energy levels, moods and hormones.
  • It also affects our mood and concentration.  We can feel tired, sluggish and moody. Hell yeah.  We might also find it tough to concentrate which leads to poor performance.
  • If we make skipping meals a habit it can alters our metabolism. Our systems thinks it’s starving. Metabolism goes down. Our bodies stores and hangs onto fat.  Bummer.
  • Again, over time, it can increase our risk of diabetes. Blood sugar is higher and insulin balance thrown out of kilter.
  • We can have lower nutrition because we miss out on meals or we reach for poor food choices when we’re really hungry.
  • It can affect blood pressure. The drop in blood sugar levels due to skipping meals stimulates our bodies to release hormones to make up for low blood sugar. This in turn causes an increase in blood pressure levels.
  • We risk digestion issues. One of the key causes of acid, reflux, stomach pain and gas is skipping meals. When our stomachs are empty for a long time, there is more acid. So every time we skip meals, our stomachs produce acids that attack the stomach lining leading to acidity, ulcers and abdominal pain.


Best avoided, yes?

But how?


Planning Ahead To Avoid The Hangry and Stay Healthy

Planning ahead is key. It doesn’t just start in the kitchen, though, it goes way back to meal planning,  shopping and meal prep.


Here are some of my top tips:-


#1 Always make a list before you shop.

That way you’ll be less likely to meander around being tempted by the unhealthy and convenient choices. You could shop online to reduce risks of impulse shopping even more.  If it’s not in the house, you can’t eat it either. ‘Nuff said.


#2 Never shop hungry.

It’s too tempting to reach for chocolate, crisps or cake. Or a family sized pizza. All of which aren’t really healthy, hormone balancing or fertility-friendly.  Food is fuel and food is medicine. Cake is neither fuel nor medicine *winks*  It IS food for the soul … that should only be quaffed in the 10% of the time that we eat for the soul.


#3 Shop for fresh produce regularly.

You want veggies and fruit especially fresh to max the nutrition value and fresh fish tastes much nicer than frozen – I think anyway.


#4 Plan meals ahead.

That way you can shop more effectively. Maybe cuts down on any food waste too.  I actually have a one page meal planner. I use it for planning main meals, but you can use it for snacks too.

AND if you’re savvy you can cut down on food prep and cooking with the “cook once, eat twice” idea. e.g. cook a roast chicken on Sunday and eat leftovers for lunch or dinner for Monday!


#5 Batch cook and store food in the fridge or freezer.

Of course, be mindful of food safety. Don’t eat spoiled food. I often cook up a lot of healthy food on a Sunday to have in the fridge or to freeze for meals in the week or weeks ahead. Soups, stews, casseroles, curries, dhaals are good choices. I even cook up things like more rice than needed or a large pan of quinoa and transform it into different lunch dishes during the week.

Get the whole family roped into batch cooking to make it quicker, easier and more fun.


#6 Portion up food for meals in advance.

For example box up or plate up lunches tonight for tomorrow. So if hangry strikes, you just reach into the fridge and grab your healthy, filling food… feeling more saintly than if you snarfed a cheddar sandwich. And feeling loads better for a nutritious meal. You can even portion up and freeze food to defrost and reheat.

I share lots of easy recipes on my Facebook page, Instagram feed and in the blog.  Keep checking back.


Stay healthy, avoid hangry ladies.


Love, Kathy x

Festive Fashion for The Over 40s (with fab tips for every age!)


Festive Fashion for The Over 40s.

…with fab tips for every age.

Lovely ladies, does Christmas fill you with dread for more reasons than just …

… it’s super dooper, extra busy…

… you can’t face another Boxing Day playing charades with Auntie Doris…

… the shops are packed with grumpy shoppers …

… family sized tins of chocolates are as addictive as Crack…

Maybe you’re also worried about party season?  Festive fashion? The pressure to dress up? To look nice on Christmas Day? Everyone wants to look nifty for New Year’s Eve, right?  But what IS festive fashion when you’re over 40?

I get it. I’m not a dressing up kinda gal. My hair has a way of it’s own. I wear my dog-hair friendly uniform of jeans and a jersey top even on Christmas Day.  I have curves.

Plus I get the odd meno hot flush at 49, so layers are a sensible thing, but I can’t seem to pull off the layers look with any style.

So to help myself – and I figured I’m not alone – I have an exclusive interview with not one but TWO Style Coaches.

AND many of their festive fashion hints are helpful no matter how old you are! Squeeeeeee.

Style Coaches that specialize in working with REAL women.  Like us. To give us some style tips to see us through the festive season, looking and feeling better.


Let me introduce to you sassy Sarah Morgan. And very lovely Lisa Newport.


Both have very different personal styles. Both work with women mainly, to discover the colours and styles that suit them and work for their preferences and lifestyles.  There are BIOs at the end.


Let’s crack on with the burning style questions I put to them on festive fashion…


How do I avoid being “Mutton Dressed as Lamb” or dressing for “Frumport” this Christmas? (Lisa)

Once you truly know your style preferences and are not swayed by what’s in the shops or what you think you ‘should’ or ‘shouldn’t’ wear because you are a certain age it can be liberating, empowering and confidence boosting.

If you develop your signature style and almost have your own basic ‘uniform’ this can be dressed up or down and adapted for different situations and events.  Creating your own festive fashion.

I usually start with my FREE style personality quiz for all my clients as this helps them define the starting point for any work we do together.

It’s important not to veer to far from your preferred style as then you’ll end up feeling self conscious and uncomfortable. e.g. if you are usually a jeans, trainers and t shirt kind of girl you could trade up your faded denim for a pair of coloured jeans teamed with a jersey wrap top, add a nice belt, a bit of jewellery and a pair of sparkly ballet flats and you’re good to go.  That’s your festive fashion.

This way you are still yourself but taking it up a level – much better than teetering around like a new born calf in heels and a frock if that’s just not your thing.


Any ideas for festive fashion for common pre/menopausal issues like muffin top, hot flushes, wobbly arms, thinner hair? (Sarah)

Like you Kathy, I’m a casual dresser, though with no instant access to dog hair, I add something even more special to achieve a look I call ‘relaxed glamour’!

At Christmas, I stick to my usual style, but with a little more ‘fire’ (and I don’t mean the hot flush sort…) by adding gorgeous touchy-feely fabrics, such as silk, cashmere, and this season’s on trend fabric, velvet. I’ll hazard that would work for you, too.

With the added bonus that they are natural fibres, and allow the body to breathe.

And if you’re thinking ‘Blimey – velvet; I’ll bake!’ there are plenty of boots, shoes and bags to choose from.

Style wise, my top advice for those menopausal issues is SKIM DON’T CLING.

Flabby arms? Look for a silky or sheer top with loose sleeves. Batwing and dolman are very ‘now’. If you have great boobs, add a fabulous necklace. If your pins are admirable, go for jacquard trousers or a sequin skirt to draw attention away from your arms.

Muffin Top is easily rectified by wearing a higher rise trouser. Wear with a longer, looser top that elongates your top half and slims down the problem area. Ditch the belts.

A dress that skims your middle is a great solution if your waistline has lost its way.

This one from Jigsaw is washable silk, perfect for ‘warm’ moments.

Festive fashion Jigsaw dress


Also from Jigsaw is this gorgeous festive top with batwing sleeves.

Festive fashion jigsaw top

If your hair is thinning, find a hairdresser who understands the problem. Shorter, blunter styles are usually most flattering.

Generally, if your hairdresser is stuck in a time-warp, go elsewhere. Out-dated hair, glasses and accessories will kill the most exciting outfit stone dead.


What do you wear when you’re the hostess so will be cooking, serving and pouring drinks? (Lisa)

As a hostess, I’d follow my own advice about wearing something that is a ‘partified’ version of my usual style so that I was comfortable and confident.

I would consider wearing an apron (a nice one of course) for the cooking element.

I’d think about sleeve length, preferably short or ¾ so I wouldn’t be dangling them in turkey fat or gravy.

The same with jewellery – no long pendants or beads to get caught up on things or people!

My other consideration would be to choose a patterned fabric or black so that if there were any splashes or spills they would not be as noticeable.

Natural fabrics are probably the best choice in case things get a bit warm in the kitchen or at least consider layers, you don’t want to end up looking hot in the wrong way.

Making sure there is a face powder compact to hand to minimize and over rosy glow would be an idea too – you wouldn’t want to end up with cheeks like Santa on all the photos would you?

This one from M&S is great.

Festive fashion loose powder

Or Boots have a good mineral based one.


For me, flat shoes are essential unless I’m sitting – I save my heels for “car to bar” kind of situations.

I would probably buy a pair of ballet flats in velvet or with a bit of festive fashion sparkle or adapt a pair of plain shoes by adding temporary shoe clips to make a statement.  You can get a wide range of shows clips from Amazon.


John Lewis have a lovely selection of flats.


Festive Fashion Sparkly Pumps

Festive Fashion Embroidery shoes

Festive fashion silver shoes

How can I go from day to evening with style? (Sarah)

Start with a simple, well cut knee-length dress that is demure enough for the office and can be worn with smart jacket if necessary. It could be black, or any colour you love. Wear with opaques and brogues by day.

After work, ditch the jacket and shoes in your desk drawer, and swap for something more glamorous. I favour suede ankle boots with a 2.5 inch heel – still comfortable, and more current than courts.

Add a statement necklace or chandelier earrings and a stronger lip colour with plenty of gloss. Take travel size hairspray to give roots a boost, and you’re done – with just a few items that would fit in your handbag.


Festive fashion statement necklace

NB I must be the only menopausal woman who is always cold, so I’d have worn my velvet coat to work, or a cashmere poncho. Freezing to death on the way to the venue is never a good start to the evening.


Festive Fashion poncho


Can you ever justify a Christmas Jumper over 40? (Lisa)

 Age is as irrelevant to Christmas jumpers, as it is to anything that you wear.

It’s all about what you feel comfortable and confident in at any age. I refer back to the knowing your style personality again.

There’s a version of a Christmas jumper that will be right for you, it’s about your interpretation …

For example a “Classic” style personality might be persuaded to wear a cream cashmere jumper with a very subtle hint of a shimmer and would see that as their version of a Christmas jumper.  Or a red one with sheen like this one.

Whereas a “Romantic” type would veer towards the softest, fluffiest mohair jumper with a pretty little puppy in a Santa hat and the cutesy factor.

For me (“Dramatic” style personality with a rounded apple tummy and mahoosive boobs) it’s all about the colour and shape. I’d wear a Christmas jumper if that was the dress code, but it would still have to suit me.

A “Creative” style personality would plan their whole outfit around the jumper and spend a lot of time and energy to craft an ensemble that wouldn’t go unnoticed.

The “Natural” style personality would just go with the flow and buy one that was convenient, probably from the supermarket and not give the style or colour much thought.

And the “Urbanista” would pay over the odds for one from an upmarket brand to make them feel that it was ok to wear.  Like this one.

 Festive Fashion Christmas Jumper Urbanista

Can everyone wear glittery and glitzy? (Sarah)

Yes, it’s just a case of how much and where.

Sparkle can be used to draw attention to our great bits – and away from those we’re not crazy about.

But it has to suit our style essence or personality too.

For example, my personal style is understated, so full-on ‘Shirley Bassey’ bling would feel shouty. I’m happier with subtle sparkle.

I have good legs so I’d wear shiny jacquard  trousers, like these from Next, with a ‘quiet’ top that skims over my arms and tummy.

Festive fashion jacquard trousers


If you have heavy legs or thighs, keep glitz high – a sequin top or silky bomber jacket, worn with deeper coloured, matte trousers will draw attention up and away from the ‘problem’ area.

Remember that sequins and sparkle will make any area look bigger. If you’re feeling like the disco ball, wear a figure-skimming top or dress in a matte fabric, and use glitz elsewhere – sparkly shoes, an amazing cuff, or giant ring.

My personal favourite is a metallic gold cross-body bag that almost serves as jewellery – it adds glamour to jeans and a jumper and means I can keep my belongings close.


 And FINALLY, what’s your BEST top tip for Festive Fashion Over 40? (BOTH)


Lisa said

“my best top tip for festive fashion over 40 is to learn what suits you in terms of colour, shape and style and don’t buy anything that you will only wear once. Consider whether something can be dressed up or down and stick to styles that you know will make you look good and feel fabulous. If you are comfortable and confident in your clothes it shows in your demeanour and you’ll sparkle from within.”


Sarah said

“my best tip for festive fashion is ‘have fun’, and for that I have to be comfortable, starting with my feet. Since I got older and wiser, the words ‘party shoes’ fill me with dread – how many evenings have I ruined, tottering around in torture? Never again.

Here’s some fabulous festive fashion footwear that ticks the comfort box.

Red patent boots from Finery


Blue velvet boots from M&S

Festive Fashion Velvet Boots

Leopard print dolly shoes from Next

Festive fashion Dolly Shoes




Well, I learned LOTs and hope you found it really useful.


Thanks to these two super Style Coaches, I have more idea what to wear for the festivities. Not just the jeans and jersey top combo … although I always seem to end up with dog hair!


If you’d like to find out more about Sarah and Lisa and their services, their bios are underneath the blog.


Love, Kathy x


Sarah Morgan

sarah morgan personal stylist

I’m Sarah Morgan Personal Stylist.

My midlife mantra is Buy Less, Buy Better. My own style is edited, edgy and comfortable.

I work with YOU to find YOUR personal style to suit your colouring, body shape and style essence. There’s usually much fun and enlightenment along the way.

I am based in beautiful Norfolk UK. If you would like to work with me go to or call 07919 608692.

Lisa Newport

Lisa Newport Personal Stylist

Lisa graduated from Loughborough College of Art with a BA Hons in textiles and fashion. She then worked as a designer, creating printed fabric for the fashion industry and in the specialist area of the colour forecasting industry, predicting trends.

Her work was distributed in many High Street stores including Miss Selfridge, Oasis, Burtons, Dorothy Perkins, Marks & Spencer, BHS, Littlewoods, Monsoon and Next; as well as many American brands.

She moved on to teaching others how to design and gained a PGCE (teaching qualification) during her time as a college lecturer in Further and Higher Education. She is also a qualified make-up artist, features regularly on BBC Radio Nottingham, Radio Newark, Notts TV 6.30 show and is a published author for

Lisa brings together her exclusive skills, knowledge, and experience in her business – My Ruby Slippers Style Academy. She works as a Style Coach delivering presentations, workshops, online courses and one to one consultations. Her aim is to help people feel good using colour and clothes to build confidence; empowering women to experiment and develop their unique style.

Her mission is to help women look good and feel fabulous so they can then go conquer the world!

“You’ve always had the power…you just had to learn it for yourself” Glinda Wizard of Oz

07975 853 245

Find her FREE online style personality quiz right here >

The Moment of Truth – When I Decided To Change

The Moment of Truth - When I Decided To Change

The Moment of Truth –  When I Decided To Change.

In my life I have had many truth bomb moments.

Some have been about health. Some about life. Some about happiness.

AND I remember one biggie.  Tthe moment of truth when I decided to get my sorry ass into gear.

The moment of truth when I decided to change.  For the better.


Happy Holidays?

Rewind to Summer 2008.  Mr P and our year old Labradoodle – Django – go to Northumberland for a cottage holiday. To catch up with my ‘rents and my bro and his family.

There’s sun, sea and sand.  The sun does shine in the North East, honest. And the beaches are peachy.

There’s real ale, fish and chips and ice cream.

There’s fun, love and laughter.

Then there’s the holiday photos, of course. Capturing lovely moments. Like Django rolling in a dead fish.  Mr P making a chip buttie as big as his head.  And me walking on the beach.


Moment of truth.


THE Moment of Truth

In the photos….

There’s my bloated face, belly overhang and fat bottom.

There’s my straw hair, eye bags and spotty chin.

And that’s what you can SEE.


What you can’t see is the creaking joints, rumbling tum and neck pain.

The haywire hormones, fibroids and period problems.

The tiredness. The stress. The burning my candle at both ends.


EVEN after having left my full time job about 9 months before. To finish my anatomy and physiology and homeopathy courses without having a  breakdown. To protect our home life and my health.

Well my home life was better – with one person at home more, life was easier for both of us.

But my health?

I had an osteopath for the joints and neck.

My own homeopath was very helpful.

A nutritional therapist was trying to sort out my digestive issues.

The moment of truth?

What was I DOING?

Answer: not enough. Not enough self-help. Not enough self-care. I wasn’t taking responsibility. I wasn’t owning my own shizzle (one of my fave sayings now).


Owning My Own Shizzle

THAT was the moment of truth when I started owning it.  Surely, a busy job hadn’t helped my health?  Was it in the genes?  What more should my doctor be doing?

BUT really who or what was to blame?

Nothing? No-one? Me? I had choices. I still have. We all do.

So I started making different choices.

And I learned much more about health and hormones and natural therapies.

I still had help from my super support team. I needed that and still do.  No man is an island and this gal isn’t one either.  People guide me, support me, challenge, heal me, help me.

But it started with me.  It always starts with yourself, I think.


Fast Forward

8 years and life has changed. I changed. I CHANGED ME. 

Through better diet. Good lifestyle choices. Avoiding toxins. Reducing stress. Changing my outlook.

Living a healthy, hormone-friendly life at leasts 80% of the time. Heck, no-one wants sackcloth and ashes and never eating cake again, right?

All this is the stuff I made it my mission to teach to other women.

I never pretended I’m a Goddess – body beautiful, brimming with health and vitality all the time. No, I’m a pretty darned healthy 49 year old who weighs over 2.5 stones less than I did, who eats well, looks after myself and navigates through menopause as best I can.  I look and feel better than I did 8 years ago, despite being menopausal. I kid you not.

AND I know a canny thing or two about hormones.


Is This YOUR Moment of Truth?

So, I’m wondering when is your moment of truth? What will trigger it? How will you start making changes? Who will help YOU?

If you want that Cheerleader and Wellbeing Fairy Godmother to be me, let me know.

I’ve been there. Seen it. Done that. Got the t shirt.

Love, Kathy x






Christmas Is Coming – Do You STILL Want to Look and Feel This Way?

Christmas IS coming

Christmas Is Coming – Do You STILL Want to Look and Feel This Way?

Christmas IS coming.

Have you noticed the nip in the air?

Most people have had their summer holidays.

Kids are going back to school and college.

Blackberries are ripening in the hedgerows.

My house is filled with loads of spiders – if I charged them rent I’d be a gazillionnaire!

It’s about 18 weeks until Christmas.  Christmas IS coming. Sorry NOT sorry. For mentioning the C word.


How Was Your Summer?

So how was your summer?

Were you one of the women posting a-m-a-z-i-n-g pictures on social media?

Glowing with health. Brimming with energy.

Looking and feeling your best self.

Swimming. Walking. Cycling.  Having fun.


Maybe you were blotchy and bloated.

Hiding a multitude of sins under baggy t shirts and massive sunglasses.

Slumped on the sofa eating Ben and Jerrys – damn the cravings!  And the tiredness.

Hugging the fan due to flushes and night sweats.

Or the toilet with horrible, heavy periods.

Blaming the heat for your moods and mardiness.

Wishing it was Winter already to wear legging, boots and oversized tunics … with a huge hat …and a duffle coat.


Christmas IS Coming But Are The Winds of Change?

Well, Winter will be here sooner than you think.  Christmas is coming.

And sure, we could all hide our belly under jumpers and eyebags under Touche Eclat.


BUT there’d still be the mood swings, the cravings, the period problems, the terrible skin, the “tropical moments”…


Yes, you could spend December eating your body weight in Cadburys Roses (replacing the tin a few times, because you keep eating them).  Damn the cravings.

Huddled on the sofa because a) you don’t want to be seen and b) you are totally knackered anyway.

Dreading Crimbo parties because nothing fits and your skin and hair look rubbish.

STILL with the fan going as well as the central heating – ahh that rollercoaster of flush and freezing.

Wondering if your super sized sanitary towel is visible through your skinny jeans.

Falling out with family before The Big Day because you’re angry, ansty and anxious. Always.

Hoping no-one kisses you under the mistletoe and brushes the stray hairs on your chin.


…unless we do something about it.


Christmas is coming. But it DOESN’T have to be like that.

Take action.  On it like a car bonnet.  Make positive changes.

It’s about 18 weeks to Christmas as I type. PLENTY of time to tame hormone havoc. A good while – really – to get a grip on modern life madness.

If we start NOW. And take baby steps. With support. And encouragement. And a positive attitude.


NOW is a GOOD Time

And now is good time.

Well, ANY time is a good time to make positive change but September is great.

You most likely had your holiday.

BBQ and Pimms and ice cream season is pretty much over.

The kids are back to school and college.

It’s time for YOU my lovely. Because you’re worth it.


How Can I Help?

I have been there, seen it, done it, got the T shirt.  I’m a Menopausal Maven now.

I know some top tips and helpful hints that can improve health, balance hormones and help YOU look and feel like your best self. Naturally.

Not by the Bootcamp of Extreme Measures either.

By sensible, steady changes.

You’ll find a wealth of support in my blogs, classes, courses and coaching.  I’m your Wellbeing Fairy Godmother.



Let’s all have Hot, Happening and less Hormonal Christmases. From September.

Love, Kathy x








Quick Breakfasts for Busy Women

Quick Breakfasts for Busy Women

Quick Breakfasts for Busy Women.

I can see there’ll be A LOT of eye rolling at this.  Quick breakfasts.

“I’m far too busy for breakfast”

“YOU try getting  your family out on time AND make and eat a healthy breakfast”

“You gotta be kidding me”

“*!++@> off!”


I’ve heard them all, when I suggest that breakfast is kinda important.

Important for women.  Everyone, in fact.

Important for blood sugar, energy, mood, brain power, weight and hormones. And MORE.  Learn the benefits of breakfast here in this fab blog.


But I get it. I too have to wear my pants on the outside of my tights in the morning …

… making Mr P a quick cuppa and a small protein packed smoothie

… making him a really good lunch on the days he’s at his office (his coworkers snicker at his non BPA tubs of fresh goodies)

… shoving him into the car and pointing him  the railway station /his office

… walking mutts

… feeding mutts

… emptying the dishwasher

… tidying kitchen

… thinking about dinner

… getting myself ready

… making the bed

… gathering my work

… eating my own quick breakfasts

… cramming washing into the machine

… YOU get the picture.  You feel like you’ve done a days work and it’s not even close to 9am.


I do understand that it’s so much easier to..

a) Have NO breakfast, just wash and go

b) Just slurp down a mug of coffee as big as your head

c) Wind in a doorstep of white toast with margarine and a big fat dollop of sugary jam


It doesn’t have to be this way. There are quick breakfasts that are nutritious breakfasts.

Here are some of my own go-to quick breakfast. Perfect for busy women. Vary your brekkie for nutrition and to avoid getting stuck in a breakfast rut.


Overnight Oats 1 Serving

This is easy peasy and you can pimp it up how you like. No cooking and it’s really filling. Even kids will eat this. And oats are pretty cheap. You can even take this to work with you!


  • 1/3 cup rolled oats (organic ideally)
  • 1/3 – 1/2 cup (depends how thick you like it) organic milk or non dairy milk e.g. I love almond milk in mine
  • 1/3 cup plain organic Greek yogurt OR a little extra milk OR Cashew Cream (whatever you prefer)




  1. Buy yourself a kilner jar or other pretty jar … because you’re soooo worth it. And we eat with our eyes too.
  2. Shove the ingredients into the jar and soak them in the fridge overnight for the magic to happen.
  3. Get creative! You can add 1/2 chopped banana or 1/3 cup fruit or fruit puree, chopped nuts, seeds, shredded unsweetened coconut, dried fruits, nut butter, maca powder stirred in (hormone balancing), cacao nibs/a little grated dark chocolate/stir in some cacao powder or even spices like a pinch of cinnamon or a little vanilla paste.  If you need a little extra sweetness honey or maple syrup or date paste is good.
  4. Scoop it down with a smug look on your face knowing it took less than 5 minutes and it’s doing you the power of good


Chia Seed Pudding 2 -3 Servings

Another super simple one you can take with you. You’ll find chia seeds at health stores or online. They are more pricey.  But are protein, fibre and nutrient packed little powerhouses.


  • 1 and 1/2 cups organic milk or non dairy milk e.g. almond milk, coconut milk
  • 1/4 cup chia seeds
  • 1 – 1 and 1/2 tablespoons of pure maple syrup or honey, to taste


  1. Grab your cute kilner jar.
  2. Shove the ingredients into the jar, STIR REALLY WELL and soak them in the fridge overnight for the magic to happen.
  3. Go go go with the toppings again!
  4. Enjoy!

Note: it’s really yummy with coconut milk and tropical fruits with coconut shards and chopped nuts. OR make it chocolatey with cacao powder, some cinnamon and a little vanilla.


Chia Seed Pudding


Avocado Toast 1 Serving

I know it’s toast. Yay!  But not just any old toast. It’s important to get good bread.  Not the usual supermarket stuff.  Read the truth about your supermarket loaf … even the ones marketed as healthy and wholegrain!

I prefer sourdough as it’s natural yeasts and left to prove of a longer time, so easier to digest and full of flavour.  Sure, it will cost more money.  If your budget is tight, buy it when its cheap and freeze it.  Or make your own at the weekends and freeze it.  Mr P makes 6 loaves at a time and freezes them.


  • 1-2 slices sourdough bread toasted or another healthy loaf from a bakers
  • 1 small avocado
  • Extra virgin olive oil to drizzle
  • Squeeze lemon or lime juice
  • A sprinkle of chopped red chilli and fresh coriander (optional)


  1. Make your toast
  2. Smoosh up your avocado all over the toast
  3. Top with a drizzle of oil and lemon or lime juice.
  4. Sprinkle with chilli and herbs if you’re using them.
  5. Scoff down.  The crunchy toast with the creaminess of the avocado is delicious.

Sometimes, I sprinkle my avotoast with a tiny crumble of organic feta and a grind of pepper instead of chilli end herbs.  Feta adds protein.


Smoothie 1 Serving

Play around and make some blends that you love!  This is a basic guide to making your own recipes.


  • 2/3rds mug liquid – choose from organic milk, non dairy milk, coconut water, juice, yoghurt, kefir …
  • 3/4 mug fruit – choose from banana, berries, mango, stone fruit, melon ….
  • 1 tbs protein – choose from organic yoghurt, cashew nuts, chia seeds, nut butter, ground flax seeds, organic protein powder, quinoa flakes …
  • Make sure it has some healthy fats e.g cashews, nut butter, chia seed, 1 tsp coconut oil, 1/2 avocado, ground flax seeds …
  • To go “green” add a handful of spinach leaves or other greenery (spinach has less flavour so easier to “hide”)
  • Pimp it up with some superfoods like maca (hormone balancing), “greens” powders, spices like vanilla or cinnamon, cocoa/cacao powder …


Whizz it all up in a blender or food processor.  I use my Froothie blender for mine .

And schhhluuuurrpppppp.

It takes longer to wash up the blender than to make these super dooper quick breakfasts.

I have my Kapow Chocolate Chilli Smoothie recipe here.



Buckwheat Pancakes 2 Large or 4 Smaller Servings

I know pancakes takes yonks eh?

Well these DO take longer than 5 minutes to make and cook, but guess what? I make them on a Sunday and freeze them for the week ahead and then you could warm them in the toaster or microwave them (I prefer not to microwave, so toaster zap them).

Watch me making my pancakes right here – the ingredients and method are also included.


So come on lovely ladies, give some of these quick breakfasts a go. You won’t look back. Your health, hormones, energy levels and happiness with thank you for it. Your family may even thank you.

If you try any recipes, post a picture on my Facebook page and let me know how you get on.  I love to see your ideas and creations too.

Love, Kathy x




Fertility and Vegetarian Diets or Vegan Diets


Fertility And Vegetarian Diets or Vegan Diets


Fertility and Vegetarian Diets or Vegan Diets.


If you’re vegetarian or vegan planning to get pregnant, read on…

NOT because I’m going to try to talk you out of the diet.  Heck no.

BUT there are some things you might want to know.  So you can make sure your diet and lifestyle don’t get in the way of getting pregnant.


Traditional Fertility Foods

Traditional cultures often have “fertility foods”.  They are highly prized foods given to new married couples to boost baby-making.

They are usually meat or milk, fish or shellfish. Animal products.

Weston Price – he studied traditional cultures and diet – found no communities living on ONLY plant foods for generations.

Plant foods miss some important nutrients. Or have them in lower amounts.

So you have to be more savvy with what you eat to stay fit and healthy. And baby-fit and healthy.


Fertility and Vegetarian Diets – Protein

It’s tougher to get complete proteins on a vegan diet.

Egg and sperm health need good quality protein in decent amounts.

Healthy vegans will eat a range of plant proteins like corn, soy, quinoa, leafy greens, spirulina and more.

If you choose soy, it’s best to eat it only in moderation when trying to get pregnant. The natural oestrogen’s ( phytoestrogens) in soya can affect your cycle. Make sure it’s not GMO soya. There are worries around GMO and impacts on fertility. Fermented organic soy products miso and natto can be good choices.


Fertility and Vegetarian Diets – Vitamin B12 and Other Good Stuff

Healthy vegans will also know that it’s tough to get Vitamin B12 on a plant diet.  Many get more B12 in their diet from supplements.  B12 is important to healthy development of a baby.

Some vegans lack the mineral iron, because its not easily absorbed from plants.  Iron is good for egg and sperm health,

Certain Omega 3 fats may be lower in vegan diet.  Try to get related fats from flaxseed and walnuts to help the body to make some of the missing ones.

Vegetarians eating eggs and high-quality, organic dairy are probably okay, as long they are eating a wide range of nutritious foods.


So my message ISN’T don’t be a vegan or vegetarian …

…it’s PLEASE take a careful look at your food and lifestyle choices.  Make sure you are maxing health and fertility before trying for a baby.

Invest time and effort in your  care for a better chance of natural conception and a healthy pregnancy and baby.


Love, Kathy x

P.S. Learn more about healthy vegetarian diets and healthy vegan diets at The Vegetarian Society  and The Vegan Society

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Sexual Health and Fertility


Sexual Health and Fertility.

Today, I’m talking about another pretty tough subject.

It’s sexual health.  You know the infections “down below” you need to get checked out at one of those clinics.  Let’s call them GUIs (genito-urinary infections) rather than STDs (sexually transmitted diseases). You’ll see why.

And it IS tough subject. One I raise with all my baby-making couples.

And I often watch their faces drain of colour. Because they think I’ve assumed something about them or at least one of them.

I HAVEN’T! Honestly.

People often skip this step when they’re planning a baby, because they’re in a committed, long-term relationship. AND have no symptoms of a problem.

I want to bust a few myths and let you see that it’s a good idea to get checked out before making a baby, even if you’ve only ever had sex with one another and are totally faithful.

Let’s start with the “face draining” issue ….

Sexual Health – Not All Infections Are Sexually Transmitted


Does that make you feel better about yourself and your partner?

It’s totally true.

Not ALL GUIs are caught through sex. Some are bowel bugs.  They can travel and cause infection elsewhere.

AND any infection of the urinary that or prostate that a guy has OR had in the past can cause damage and affect fertility right now.  Like mumps, for example.  Yes, past infections can be troubling you now.

So, it’s good to get checked out even if you’ve only ever had sex with one another.


Sexual Health –  You Might Have An Infection And Never Know

Yup. Some infections can be symptom-less or symptoms might be at such a low level you don’t even notice or worry about it.  Not all infections are easy to spot, because you may show no obvious symptoms.

Only a test by a doctor or nurse might show them up.

Please get checked, everyone.

But especially if you’re struggling to fall pregnant or have a history of miscarriage.


Sexual Health – Infections Can Cause Fertility Problems

GUIs can can be bad for you, your ability to get pregnant AND your future baby.

Infections like chlamydia can cause blocked fallopian tubes and lead to Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID) too. Both of these can lead to issues trying to get pregnant.

Untreated GUIs can even affect your future baby’s health if they are born naturally (not c section), as they pass through the birth canal.


Sexual Health – Some Symptoms Of Infections

Symptoms of GUIs can include:-

  • Irritation and itching down below
  • Burning on pee-ing
  • Unusual bleeding
  • Pain on sex
  • Pain in the lower tummy area
  • Discharges that are out of the ordinary
  • Tiredness
  • Lumps, warts and ulcers on your genitals
  • Swollen and painful testicles.


So don’t be shy, get yourselves checked out, before trying to get pregnant or if you are having trouble conceiving. There are free sexual health clinics in most towns and cities or talk to your Doctor.

They are used to talking about this stuff all the time.  It’s confidential. And they literally have seen it all before.


Love, Kathy x

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A Fertility Friendly Kitchen

Fertility Friendly Kitchen

A Fertility Friendly Kitchen.



I’m always banging on about eating a varied diet of nourishing foods to protect and fire up fertility. I know I do.

But did you know, that what you buy, how you cook it and how you store it is important too?


Well grab a brew, pull up a chair and read on missus. I’m about to share my top tips for a fertility friendly kitchen.


Fertility Friendly Shopping

So what are my best secrets for being a savvy shopper when it comes to protecting and boosting fertility?

  • Start with replacing the packets, tins, jars and cartons with real food.  Proper foods.  Fresh foods. Buy food that is ingredients, not has ingredients.
  • Buy organic as much as you can – certainly meat and poultry to avoid the growth hormones and drugs. AND any dairy you choose to eat for the same reasons. PLUS the “dirty dozen” most polluted veggies and fruits.   Also read my blog on how to deal with the hormone harmers lurking in your fridge if you can’t buy all organic stuff.
  • Buy fresh.  It’s better to do a couple of shops a week and have fresh stuff than one big old shop and be snarfing limp, sad, tired veggies by Friday.
  • Become an avid reader of labels – avoid additives, preservatives, colourings, GMOs, sugar (including all the words with “ose” that are actually sugars) and other nasties that harm hormones and health.

Fertility Friendly Cooking

Did you know the materials you cook with have an impact on your food?

And your food impacts on your health and fertility.

The three safest options are:-

  • cast iron
  • enamel coated cast iron
  • stainless steel.

Non-stick pans are convenient, but can cause problems if you scrape the coating and it gets into your food. Teflon has been linked with reduced fertility, thyroid issues and cancers.

Copper can leach from copper pans. Its allergenic, toxic and high copper can affect women’s hormones and fertility.

Aluminium has been linked with oestrogen-driven cancers and Alzheimers. Maybe time for a change?

And do you use a microwave to cook?

Microwaving alters the structure of food. Some studies suggest it’s harmful, others pooh pooh that. When stuff isn’t clear, I’m personally very cautious. I don’t eat microwave food, knowingly.


Fertility Friendly Food Storage

Again natural materials are best for food storage.  Think fertility friendly wood, ceramics, glass, stainless steel, cast iron.

Avoid copper, aluminium and non stick.

PLUS plastics. Many plastic storage containers contain BPA which is a known hormone harmer.  It’s in plastic drinks bottle too.  Look out for BPA free containers – I bought mine on the high street, so they’re easy to get.

And what of food wrap?

Avoid using aluminium foil right next to the food, if you can.

Ditto PVC plastic food wrap. Especially fatty food like cheese and meat.

Cover the containers rather than wrap the actual food.

I like paper bags, greaseproof and non PVC wrap myself.


There’s a lot to take on board here. But start with ONE change.

Once that’s mastered, take another step…and another.

Soon you’ll be shopping, cooking and storing food like a fertility friendly Ninja.  Any questions, just ask over on Footsteps to Fertility


Love, Kathy x

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Froothie Dehydrator Optimum P200 – My Review

Froothie Dehydrator Optimum P200 - my review



Froothie Dehydrator Optimum P200 – My Review

I make no secret of the fact that this girl loves her Froothie Blender – my Kitchen BFF – and my Froothie Juicer (which gets a mention here).

So when I heard that Froothie were launching a dehydrator here in Blighty, I HAD to have a Froothie Dehydrator.  *whispers – my trusty Excalibur went to a good home with a dear friend and her lovely vegan daughter* That one had served me very well. It now serves them very well.

I could hardly contain my excitement when it arrived. I didn’t know whether to mug or hug the delivery driver. I did neither, you’ll be pleased to know.

I was very keen to unpack it, even though I was literally about to go on holiday and couldn’t use it for over a week. #bittersweet


Froothie Dehydrator – The Looks

So, I think it’s kinda handsome.

It’s bigger. A six tray. That’s one more tray than my previous one.  It looks a bit sleeker and funkier – space age even – and looks good in our new, modern Utility Room.

It’s digital not manual, so there are less fiddly knobs, which will need cleaning. You can set it by hours and minutes, which is also better. It has a variable temperature dial.

Yay, it’s BPA free and being a Defender of Hormone Health, that’s great news for me.

Although it looks good out on the worktop, it fits into the cupboard that housed my old one – bonus!

It came with two mesh trays and two drying sheets.

So far, so good. Fast forward a week or two until after my holiday…


Froothie Dehydrator – Thunderbirds Are Go

I’m the sort of girl who likes an instruction manual, a video tutorial and my hand holding.

No need to find anyone to hold my hand.  The booklet is brief, but covers what I needed to know. I didn’t even have to ask Mr P to help me.  It’s not that I can’t work stuff, it’s just electrickery bobbins makes me nervous.

Anyhoo, I’m sure FroothieTV on YouTube will have videos shortly. There are other videos on other appliances as well as some fab recipes.

And I know that I can contact Customer Service with any queries on my new baby.

I planned  make a couple of fave and basic recipes to get me cracking, so I opted for a raw red onion bread adapted from a  Anya Ladra recipe and some spicy snack almonds.  I temper the chilli in case I blow off Mr P’s head.

So I rustled up my recipes and headed for the Utility Room.


Raw onion bread ready for the Froothie Dehydrator

Froothie Dehydrator – The Results

The Froothie dehydrator was easy to programme and we’re away.

The first thing I noticed was how quiet it was. Of course, it makes a noise – it’s fanning your food dry – but it was slightly quieter than I’m used to.

I also think the drawers fit more tightly, so more of the warm air stays inside the machine.  The bread and almonds certainly dried quicker than in my previous machine, which is good news for energy efficiency.

AND it costs about the same price as my previous smaller one. BUT look out for regular promotions on the Froothie website.

I am sold.  I LOVE it.

The bread and nuts aren’t half bad either *winks*


Spicy almonds fresh from the Froothie Dehydrator


It’s big thumbs up from me Froothie.

Next project will probably be a mahoosive vat of dehydrator granola, when the extra mesh and sheets I ordered arrive. Form an orderly queue for breakfast chez Payne.

If YOU want to jump on the groovy Froothie train, check out the website for the latest products – the dehydrator, blenders, juicers, thermomix – and DISCOUNTS.  There are often some VERY GOOD offers.


Love, Kathy x

P.S. I generally love Froothie products so much I am an Ambassador. This blog contains affiliate links. I genuinely prefer this new dehydrator to my old one.



10 Things We Do In The Morning That Harm Hormones

Blog 10 Things We Do In The MorningThat Harm Hormones

10 Things We Do In The Morning That Harm Hormones


“So have a nice day,

Have a nice day,

Have a nice day,

Have a nice day”

Any Stereophonics fans recognise that?  Love them!

And while I wake up every morning determined to make every a nice day, are we always making it a healthy day?   Are we protecting our health?  Are we protecting our hormones?

It got me thinking about all the things we do before we even leave the house that could potentially harm hormones and health. I counted 10, but there may be even more.

Here’s my  list with some alternatives to set you up for a nice day, week, month …


#1 Wake Up To Wifi

Who wakes up to the tinkly and tinny tune of their phone in a room full of tablets, computers and a TV set? Oh and wearing their fitbit?

The electromagnetic fields around this electronic equipment is thought to disrupt normal sleep.  They interfere with the sleep-wake pattern which  is governed by hormones.

If you’re having trouble sleeping and wake up unrefreshed, try banishing the gizmos to another room and invest in a good old fashioned alarm clock.


#2 Hit The Snooze Button

It feels so good and soooo naughty doesn’t it? Hitting snooze and getting a few more precious minutes snuggled under the duvet?

UNTIL it makes you hideously late so you rush about like a headless chicken, stressed as a stressed thing on the First Day of Stress.  And you risk making most of these 10 poor choices. Because you’re late. Again.

Stresses harm hormones. Your body pumps put the stress hormone cortisol, robbing other hormones like progesterone of their building blocks. Low progesterone risks a whole lot of symptoms from allergies through period problems to yeast infections.

Try to have a bedtime and wake-up routine that leaves plenty of time to fit everything in without stress.

#3 Take A Shower

Haha, I’m not REALLY suggesting we don’t shower or bath.  I just wanted to mention the different health benefits of choosing hot or cold water.

Showering in hot water apparently raises the hormone oxytocin, so a hot shower is good for easing anxiety and making us feel happier. It can also be good for aches and pains and help er em er clearing snot, when we’re bunged up.

Hot water isn’t so great for our skin or hair, though. And some women have issues with dry hair, skin and nails when they’re (peri)menopausal anyway.

A cold shower on the other hand is better for skin AND it helps wake us up and become more alert. Sorry, I still can’t be tempted to a cold shower. Brrrrr.


#4 Slather On A Chemical Cocktail

It’s estimated we put over 500 chemicals on our skin daily, ladies. Some of them are known to harm hormones and harm health.

Watch out for chemicals that harm hormones – phthalates, triclosan and more.

I suggest switching to natural, organic, non-toxic cosmetics and toiletries over time. I like Neals Yard, myself.


#5 Quaff Caffeine

Who needs their cup of Joe to kickstart their day?  Or a mahoosive mug of Builders’ Tea?

The caffeine can make our poor adrenal glands tired (they pump out stress hormone cortisol). It can affect fertility and is harmful in pregnancy. It also makes hot flushes and night sweats worse for many women.

If you are gong to drink caffeine drinks, it’s best to do it early in the day so it doesn’t disturb sleep later though.

Or you could choose maca powder in your smoothie, if you need livening up in the morning. It’s a so-called superfood.


#6 Snarf a Carbfest

For many women, breakfast is a couple of slices of toast spread in sugary jam. Or it’s a bowl chock full of sugary, carb-laden cereal.

And then you’re starving by 10am, right? And you feel like falling asleep? Or you want to rip off someone’s head?

Eating too many carbs also encourages fat-storing, which is the last thing you want if you’re trying to manage your weight.

It’s much better to choose PROTEIN for breakfast to balance energy, mood and hormones.

Think eggs, wild fish, nuts and seeds, chia seed, quinoa, organic meat and organic yoghurt  – non organic will contain drugs and growth hormones that the animals were fed and they can harm hormones.

Which leads me to…


#7 Skip Brekkie

Yes, some women are brekkie-dodgers.

It’s better for energy, mood and hormone balance to eat something healthy in the morning.  If you really can’t face eating too early, eat little later.

There are plenty of healthy things that you can eat “on the go” if you really must.  Like chia seed pudding in a jar. Or a protein packed smoothie. Neither take long to make, honest.


#8 Tell Ourselves (Lie) That We’ll Exercise Later

I know it’s tough. It REALLY Is. Especially in winter.  BUT it really is better to exercise in the morning. It “gets it out of the way”.  It wakes you up. And sets you up for the day.

Or you could exercise at lunchtime or early evening, if that fits better.

Exercising in the evening does risk getting you too “pumped” to sleep well because you’ll have too much cortisol and adrenaline and not enough melatonin, the sleep hormone.


#9 Check Work E Mails

Back to stress!

If you’re checking your work e mails whilst slurping down a coffee and ironing your shirt at the same time, it’s not likely you’re that relaxed.

Also see tip #2.

Make yourself a more relaxing morning routine.  You could make sure you’re ironing/making up lunches/getting bags ready etc the night before. AND make sure yo have plenty of time each morning for getting ready, getting your family ready and eating a healthy breakfast before you head out.


#10 Light Up

If you’re a smoker, I don’t need to repeat the dangers to health. BUT did you know smoking can harm hormones?

Smoking lowers oestrogen, which can cause early menopause AND the symptoms of menopause like dryness, hot flushes, low sex drive and more.


If you recognise yourself in here, maybe start by changing one habit at a time? Who knows, maybe you’ll have a much NICEr day?  And not harm hormones.

Love, Kathy x